Being a Man

When God created man, He gave him dominion over the entire creation that includes man it self, The rest of the story you know it but let’s put it this way: there first was a doubtful thought introduced by Satan which was the starting of the domino effect of the original sin and as a matter of fact of all sin. Whenever men divert from the control of God you will loose control over your thoughts because only God gives wisdom. When you see you are having problem solving the problems you face, Ask God to give you discernment, to open the eyes of your heart. Paul advises us to be sober in order to lead our family and to guide our Christian peers.
Lucado could not be more right when he wrote:
Take Every Thought Captive
Today's thoughts are tomorrow's actions.
Today's jealousy is tomorrow's temper tantrum.
Today's bigotry is tomorrow's hate crime.
Today's anger is tomorrow's abuse.
Today's lust is tomorrow's adultery.
Today's greed is tomorrow's embezzlement.
Today's guilt is tomorrow's fear.
Could that be why Paul writes, "Love ... keeps no record of wrongs" (1 Cor. 13:5 NIV)?

People often say "Your are the man" to tell you that you have done or can do good thing. So there id no doubt about that "Being a Man" means to do things wright, do Godly thing.
Trust and obey God.